How to describe what you want when you're not sure of the terminology

How to describe what you want when you're not sure of the terminology

Most people who get in touch about a bespoke latex piece start the same way: with an apology. "I'm not sure what it's called" or "I don't know the right word for this" before describing something they've seen, imagined, or half-remembered from a photo they can no longer find.

The apology isn't necessary. Knowing the terminology isn't a prerequisite for ordering well. What matters is being able to describe what you want clearly enough that the person making it can picture the same thing you're picturing. That's a different skill, and it's one most people already have.

Start with the body, not the garment

The most useful thing you can do is describe where the garment sits on the body and what it covers. "Something that covers my torso and legs but leaves my arms bare" is more useful than guessing at a name and getting it wrong. "High on the neck, open at the back, fitted through the hips" gives a maker everything they need to understand the silhouette before a single technical term is used.

Work from the top down. Where does it start — at the neck, the shoulders, the chest? Where does it end — at the hip, the knee, the ankle? What's open and what's covered? That sequence, described plainly, is a garment brief.

Describe what you've seen, not what you think it's called

If you have a reference image — a photo, a screenshot, something you saved months ago — send it. A single image is worth more than a paragraph of attempted terminology. If you don't have an image, describe the closest thing you've seen in plain language: "like a swimsuit but with long sleeves" or "like a dress but with legs" are both perfectly clear starting points.

The instinct to translate your idea into technical language before sending it often makes things less clear, not more. "I want a catsuit" tells a maker less than "I want something that covers my whole body from neck to ankle, close-fitting, with long sleeves" — because catsuit means slightly different things to different people, and the plain description doesn't.

The details that actually matter

Once the basic shape is established, a few specific details make a significant difference to the finished piece — and these are worth thinking about even if you don't know the vocabulary for them.

Neckline: high and close to the throat, or lower? Does it sit at the collarbone, or does it open further? Is the back open or closed?

Sleeves: long, short, or none? If long, do they cover the hands or stop at the wrist?

Fit: close to the body throughout, or looser through any part of it? Latex at 0.30mm follows every contour closely; at 0.45mm there's more structure and the garment holds its shape more independently. If you're not sure which you want, describing how you want it to feel — "second skin" versus "more structured" — is enough to work from.

Fastenings: does it need to open somewhere to get into? If so, where — at the back, the side, the front? Or does it stretch enough to pull on without a fastening?

None of these require technical vocabulary. They're just decisions about the garment, described plainly.

What you don't need to know

You don't need to know the difference between a catsuit and a unitard, or whether what you want is technically a bodysuit or a leotard. You don't need to know what a gusset is, or how a back-zip differs from a side-zip in construction terms. You don't need to know the names of specific neckline shapes or sleeve styles.

A good maker will ask the right questions if something isn't clear. The job of the initial brief is just to establish enough of a shared picture that those questions are specific rather than general. "What kind of neckline?" is a better question to receive than "What do you want?" — and you get there by describing the shape, not by learning the vocabulary.

The one thing worth being precise about

Measurements. This is where vagueness costs you something real.

Latex doesn't adjust the way other materials do. A piece made to your measurements — your actual measurements, taken carefully — will fit in a way that a piece made to a standard size won't. The difference is immediately obvious when you put it on. If you're ordering bespoke, take the time to measure properly. We have a guide on how to do this, and if you're unsure about any of it, ask before you order rather than after.

Everything else — the terminology, the technical details, the vocabulary — can be worked out in conversation. The measurements are the part that needs to be right from the start.

Written by the Form Latex team — bespoke latex clothing handmade in the UK